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Welcome to the blog

Grab a drink, take a seat, and read… 

I’m here to shed light on those things that make us feel like shit and why.
I look at the world a little differently to most, which means i live a little differently to most. 

If you’re sick of trying to be one of The Masses, and want to throw your middle finger up to “normal” then go ahead, I won’t stop you… In fact, I’ll probably join you.  

Here’s to life changing for the better,
Debbie

Debbie

Why I Closed My Facebook Group

Why I Closed My Facebook Group

I want to take you back to 2018... so long ago, right? Well, back then I had a Facebook Group called Boost Your Biz using Pinterest - I love the irony of using one platform to promote another, it's not lost on me. It was something I started based on a recommendation...

Confession – I’ve never been fully invested in anything

Confession – I’ve never been fully invested in anything

In order to be really successful at anything in life, you need to be committed and invested. Invested in the end result. You have to be committed to do the work, without the instant gratification. Day in, day out… consistently. You need to be in it for the long haul....

You are not your surroundings!

You are not your surroundings!

It’s the kinda place that if you live there long enough, it drags you down, like quicksand, you just don’t notice it straight away. And the longer you’re there the harder it is to get away. We often hear “don’t forget where you came from” and “remember your roots” as...

What keeps you up at night?

What keeps you up at night?

The weather?The weird sounds? Passing traffic? The neighbour heading out to work? Your lack of progress? The errands list that never ends? All the things you need to do All the things you haven't done All the things you want... The restlessness of your mind That...

A change of pace, and a change of scenery…

A change of pace, and a change of scenery…

That’s the cure to the ills. I reckon this is why people like holidays and the such. I for one, never really have holidays. It’s been 4 years since I last went anywhere, and that was a weekend in a caravan with the family. It was a great weekend, we had fun, spent...

Lessons of the 5k

Lessons of the 5k

Around March time last year, somewhere after the refusal to acknowledge “New Year Resolutions” as a real thing, and further acceptance that I’m getting older and need to actually make some of the improvements I want in my life, I decided to take on the notorious 5km....

He quit his job because of me!

He quit his job because of me!

I wish it were an exaggeration, something to grab your attention, but the fact of the matter is; he quit his job because of me! It’s not as bad as it sounds. Here’s the story… I like to work outside of the house, and I usually hit up coffee shops, or cafes (cliche, I...

You can’t show up like that!

You can’t show up like that!

No, no no…. You can’t show up like this. You need to be your best self before you show up. Well, I fucked that up! Cos here I am, Showing up As I am Not perfect. Perfectly imperfect Practically imperfect in most ways (not very Mary Poppins, is it?) I’m nowhere near...

Just follow the damn rules!

Just follow the damn rules!

It’s not so difficult, is it? Do as you’re told Do what they say Stay within the lines Just stick to doing what you’re told What’s expected of you Stay in your lane Stick to your pay grade. Don’t do anything above or beyond and CERTAINLY don’t dare question anything...

Walk the path

Walk the path

By going through the motions, holding fast - one step, then the next. Showing up every day for the damn thing that needs to be done. Little by little, but holding fast, whether the results are showing up yet or not. It’s not hard. It just needs to be done, and I’m...

Sometimes you really need that low…

Sometimes you really need that low…

It’s all well and good chasing those highs in life, and hoping, wishing and fighting for a life that’s all sunshine, rainbows and flowers. But fun fact about rainbows; they don’t happen without rain. And the flowers don’t grow either. In fact, research shows that when...

I wish I could be bored

I wish I could be bored

“I’m bored!” Was pretty much the chorus of my childhood… I’m sure my mum got sick of hearing it, but there it was “I’m bored!” I was a loner though, I didn’t like playing out with the other kids, I wanted to be inside. I didn’t particularly want them at my house all...

Sometimes, I’m just a really clever idiot.

Sometimes, I’m just a really clever idiot.

It’s what causes me to overcomplicate things in my life. Something that could be SUPER SIMPLE ends up needing a degree to figure it out. Or something that could be done in 2 steps, takes me 5. Sometimes, it’s having facepalmingly obvious “realisations” Like when you...

Fear Itself

Fear Itself

Alright, I was obsessed with Buffy back in the day, and still love to watch the reruns now… so, lemme ask you this? Do you remember the episode “Fear Itself”? Season 4 Episode 4, now, if you never watched Buffy what the hell have you been doing with your life?...

Motivation vs. Motive

Motivation vs. Motive

What’s the difference? Why is that important? Look for your MOTIVE Motivation is Bullshit, I covered that one a few years ago. We spend our lives waiting for motivation… because when it does, we’ll finally hit the gym, lose weight, go that place, do that thing, etc,...