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Welcome to the blog

Grab a drink, take a seat, and read… 

I’m here to shed light on those things that make us feel like shit and why.
I look at the world a little differently to most, which means i live a little differently to most. 

If you’re sick of trying to be one of The Masses, and want to throw your middle finger up to “normal” then go ahead, I won’t stop you… In fact, I’ll probably join you.  

Here’s to life changing for the better,
Debbie

Debbie

You need to create space for yourself

You need to create space for yourself

I don’t care how much you want to create for the sake of your children, or their future, or whatever else, none of that matters if you don’t create space for yourself. Stop trying to live your life in martyrdom for someone else.Stop trying to give everything you’ve...

Stop hiding from the world!

Stop hiding from the world!

Are you being all of you?I mean 100% fully, all of you, unapologetically, no holds barred…When are you ever truly being all of you? It’s an interesting question when you dig into it. You notice all the times you downplay this, emphasise that, always just tweaking...

The problem with having expensive taste

The problem with having expensive taste

AKA: Get over yourself already! Why spend £1000 on a computer, when you can pick one up for £100?Why spend £100 on a pair of boots when you can pick up some that look the same for £10 Well… you know why? BECAUSE IT’S NOT ABOUT THE MONEY!!!!It’s about the value.Yours....

Shift the Paradigm #BlackLivesMatter

Shift the Paradigm #BlackLivesMatter

I wish I knew the words to say… But then, I’ve already said many of them. (It was never about a skirt!) It was about something so much deeper, a lesson that still needs to be learned. All that is happening, that happens in the world, whether 100 years ago, 1000 years...

A snake sheds its skin to survive.

A snake sheds its skin to survive.

A snake sheds its skin to survive. To grow. If it didn’t, it would die. Suffocate. Humans shed approx 1.6lb of flesh per year. Our cells all regenerate depending on the cellular lifespan, typically 7 years (all but the neurons in our brains, which last a lifetime)...

Fuck it, fuck it all… it’s not worth it.

Fuck it, fuck it all… it’s not worth it.

Sometimes, I just don’t care and there are things I just don’t want to fucking do. It really is THAT simple! I don’t care I don’t want to I’m not going to I don’t. And I’m sick of being told that I should, or I have to, or whatever other bullshit, because that’s how...

Maybe I did it all backwards, y’know?

Maybe I did it all backwards, y’know?

Who am I kidding, of course I did. Here’s how things are supposed to work; You grow up, go through school, study, learn, get the certificate(s), work, work some more, gain the traction, get the “results”; the pay rise, the promotion, etc, and then you’re allowed to be...

How to be more successful than most people will ever be

How to be more successful than most people will ever be

Recently, I was living in my own little bubble, as I always do, writing, posting, living my life, raising my children, chatting to friends, and getting on with things, and I received an email… nothing unusual. In this email, was written the following (verbatim); The...

It’s all or nothing… there is no in-between

It’s all or nothing… there is no in-between

I wouldn’t really say that I’ve changed all that much over the years. I mean, yeah, I’ve changed, of course, I’ve changed. We all do. Change is really the only constant. But fundamentally? Nah… not so much. Here’s what I’ve noticed though… Over the years, I’ve always,...

If you could start over, what would you change?

If you could start over, what would you change?

If you could just wipe the slate clean, start over, do things fresh, anew… what would you do? What would you keep the same? What would you do the same? What would you do differently? What would you pay more attention to? What would you not give your attention to? It’s...

Comparisonitis will permanently kill your joy!

Comparisonitis will permanently kill your joy!

Yep, keep comparing this with that and you’re gonna be a miserable, joyless bastard for the rest of your life. Really, it’s that simple. Let’s take for example all the new movie remakes. If you sit down to watch a remake of a beloved movie from your childhood (we know...

Why are you so keen to keep “passing the time”?

Why are you so keen to keep “passing the time”?

Time does a pretty good job of passing by all on it’s own. Tick follows tock whether you do something with it or not. The Earth continues to spin on its axis, and make its way around the sun. And yet, everyone just wants to “pass the time” while they get from here to...

Sit down. Switch Off. Unplug. Unwind.

Sit down. Switch Off. Unplug. Unwind.

In that order, just take some time. Take some time to detach from everything that’s going on. Step away from the noise, the constant drone of everything and everyone else. Take some time apart. Take some time for you. I promise you it’s the best thing you’ll ever do....